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I am being prevented from seeing my grandchild. What can I do?
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15 Sep 2026

I am being prevented from seeing my grandchild. What can I do?

I am being prevented from seeing my grandchild. What can I do?

For many families, the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren is one of the most meaningful bonds within family life, contributing to a child's identity formation and fostering the transmission of affection, values, and family heritage across generations. However, marital breakdown, family disputes, or simply a deterioration in the relationship between parents and grandparents may result in the total or partial loss of that contact.

Portuguese law addresses this issue through Article 1887-A of the Civil Code, which provides that "parents may not unjustifiably deprive their children of contact with their siblings and ascendants."

Accordingly, the child's right to maintain contact with their ascendants is legally recognised. In parallel, Portuguese case law has consistently affirmed the existence of a genuine subjective right of grandparents to maintain direct and personal relationships with their grandchildren.

How can grandparents enforce this right?

When dialogue with the child's parents is insufficient to restore contact, grandparents may resort to the courts through guardianship proceedings (common guardianship proceedings), within which the court may establish a visitation or contact regime between grandparents and grandchildren.

In certain circumstances, the issue of contact with grandparents may also be examined within ongoing parental responsibility proceedings between the parents. In such cases, the court may be asked to define a contact arrangement aimed at safeguarding the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren, following a careful assessment of the specific circumstances involved.

Nevertheless, it should be noted that this right is not absolute and does not arise automatically. The court will always determine the matter in accordance with the best interests of the child and may therefore refuse or restrict contact between grandparents and grandchildren where there are compelling reasons to do so, particularly where there are risk-related behaviours on the part of the grandparents or other factors which, in the specific circumstances of the case, render the maintenance or restoration of such contact inadvisable (alcohol or substance abuse, domestic violence, physical or psychological abuse, neglect in the care provided during visits, or inappropriate interference in the parent-child relationship, among others).
 
On the other hand, it should be emphasised that the scope and frequency of contact, particularly regarding overnight stays, holiday periods, telephone calls or video calls, are not subject to a uniform legal framework, nor are they expressly regulated by law. Such matters will always depend on a case-by-case assessment of each family's specific circumstances.
 
In light of the above, Portuguese law provides grandparents with an effective legal avenue to seek contact with their grandchildren whenever such contact is unjustifiably denied. This reflects a delicate balance between parental authority and the protection of wider family ties, a balance that the courts continue to assess and resolve on a case-by-case basis.